I've spoken to Carole and she's very tired and weak but managing as best she can. I'm thankful that she has Shirley to be there for her.
I've told her that you would give her a call a day or so in advance of your visit to see if she will be up for it, hopefully she will be. She knows that she is in your thoughts and appreciates knowing that.
Her phone: 250 485-4022
Her address is #68 8598 Hwy 97 (about 10 min. north of Oliver)
When heading south on Hwy 97 from Penticton you see McIntyre's bluff - it's profile is quite distinctive - you will be only 5 or 6 kilometers from Deer Park Estates. There is a little stretch of 4 lane highway that ends just before the entrance to their park.
This is the sign to the Park entrance (at least it was 2 years ago) will be on your right if heading south on Hwy 97 from Penticton.
text park Entrance
Shirl has provided a pic of the park layout complete with Left, Right, Left arrows to their house #68.